Holy shit I used to slow dance to this in camp. It was surreal—it would be in a darkened room, as a reverie to some or other pop song and couples would just sway back and forth to this song and it fit perfectly.

1 week ago  #music #memories 
"Although most boys figure out how to bring themselves to orgasm by age thirteen, half of girls don’t have their first orgasms until their late teens, twenties, or beyond. Teenage girls widely agree that they get the message loud and clear that masturbation is something boys do, but girls don’t, can’t, or shouldn’t. The cultural focus on intercourse tells young women to expect they’ll begin to experience sexual pleasure once they have sex with a man (whether or not they’re even interested in sex with men). Nearly all teen boys, on the other hand, experience sexual pleasure long before they get their hands—or other body parts—into a partner’s pants. Despite the massive advances in women’s equality, young women’s sexuality is stuck in a surprising paradox. Young women are sold provocative clothes but aren’t taught where to find their own clitoris. Many girls give their boyfriends oral sex, but are too uncomfortable with their own bodies to allow the guys to return the favor. It’s still a radical act to say that women need and deserve access to information about their own sexual pleasure—not just about the risks and negative consequences of sex."
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Dorian Solot, I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide. (via historicalslut)

I’ve met too many girls who are overly weird/awkward about sex for all the wrong reasons while it’s a-ok for dudes to wank all through middle school and I’m tired of that shit.

(via buttahlove)

1 week ago 20,742 notes

Whenever my dad saw me talking on the phone, or online talking to people, he’d tell me I shouldn’t make myself so available all the time. That it would come around to people taking my presence for granted and eventually nobody would find me special or interesting enough to seek me out because I’d just always be there. I think it happened already though.

1 month ago 1 note

this isnt coherent

but sometimes I’ll be excited to make friends or talk to someone again and get closer and be friends together, you know, and even though all my side eyeing and saying mean things and being a judgemental asshole is still there im like “no i forreal want to be friends with this person!” and then right as I’m reaching that point where my liking for them plateaus and will never go back to “you’re ridiculous and I hate you, don’t friend me on facebook”status, right where I’m at the closest point to really liking them as friends I see them do something and it I realize we can’t be friends anymore.

I just need a special type of friends that fit me for all the right reasons. And I have some but I want more.

but uh I think I give people the impression that I’m kind of a jerk and I suppose they wouldn’t be wrong but they’re not right either.

1 month ago

English training

so one time me and Andrew were walking in downtown and this group of loud men/boys (gay dudes) were talking and yelling and having fun right? And I hate fun! So when one of them said “who wants to run a train on him”

I said “I do” while walking past because I thought he meant hit him with a train and run him over because he was being obnoxious

but that’s not what running a train on someone means.

Things got kind of awkward after that.

1 month ago  #awks #fun times 
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I feel mad lonely because nobody talks to me on tumblr anymore I used to get people asking questions and liking my posts but now it’s like “oh alicia put a sock in it? (put a sock on it? put it in a sock? I need english training) while I’m like “but friends!”

anyway this is a great mashup.

1 month ago  #music #tumblr #chromeo #breakbot  4 notes
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